They owed their
children's lives to Gwen Derry"
by Jo-Ann Korosi
My parents had 4 children
by the time Gwen came to Craigmyle, Alberta, my older brother and 3 sisters.
My father had had a terrible experience with his smallpox vaccination when
he was a boy so he did not allow his children to be vaccinated. As a result,
they all came down with whooping cough at the same time. They ranged from two
years to five years of age. All of the children were very ill and my parents
had moved the children from their bedrooms to the living/dining room so they
were never out of my parents' sight.
Whooping Cough in the late
forties was very serious and could kill. When my siblings went in to
their coughing fits my parents had to rush to their sides to sit them up and
pound their backs to loosen the phlegm as they were too weak to cough without
sitting up. Our District Health Nurse, Gwen Derry came and stayed with my parents
- only leaving when she had to. Along with my parents, she nursed these children
day and night.
Gwendolyn Mary White was
born and raised in Edmonton. She graduated from the University of Alberta Hospital
with a Bachelor of Science in 1939 and became a nurse with the Victorian Order
of Nurses. In the early years of World War II she joined the Royal Canadian
Air Force as a nursing sister. Gwen White came to Craigmyle after the war to
serve as the District Health Nurse. These nurses cared for the whole community
during a time when there was no public health care insurance. Visits to the
doctor were rare because of the expense. It was the District Health Nurse you
went to if you were sick. She would decide if you needed to see a doctor. While
serving as the District Health Nurse, Gwen met and married Jack Derry and they
raised their two sons.
So it was that Gwen Derry
was there when my siblings were so dreadfully sick. One night things reached
the crisis and she told my mother she had done all she could and that they
would know by midnight how things were going to go. Gwen stayed with them all
and around midnight the older children had started to breath easier. The two-year-old
was very frail. My Dad was holding her up in the rocking chair. She had coughed
so hard that when she was sat up to get rid of the phlegm, the blood ran out
of her mouth. My parents were sure they would lose her but a little later,
with Gwen by her side, she let out a big sigh and started to breath more easily.
They all survived and are still alive today.
Every year after that
my father bought Gwen Derry a dozen red roses at Christmas. That was no small
feat in the winter in Craigmyle during the 40's, 50's and even the 60's. No
words were ever spoken of debt but my parents knew very well they owed their
childrens' lives to Gwen Derry. And all of the children were given their dreaded "shots" after
that.
This story in itself would
be an inspiration but it continues. Gwen Derry cared for her whole community
and was probably it's most important citizen. She didn't even stop when her
job was cut. She was always available for nursing advice.
When I was in grade nine
and having trouble in science she tutored me. I passed my grade nine departmental
exam. That was in 1968 and during her lessons she told me I should go into
computers, as this was the wave of the future. (How smart she was.) I forgot
that advice, finished high school, got married and had 2 children. When I traveled
to Hanna (where Gwen had moved) the first time after my children were born,
I had to go and show her my babies. When I walked in the door, she took them
from my arms, laid them on the dining room table, stripped their clothes off
and did a full assessment, pronounced them sound and wrapped them up and gave
them back to me. Then came the questions to make sure I knew what the heck
I was doing.
Years later when Gwen
passed away my family was all there to say good bye (even though my brother
and sisters had scattered across North America). It was standing room only
at the funeral and her casket was so covered with a blanket of red roses
that you could barely see it. She is buried in the Field of Honour in the
Hanna Cemetery. Gwen Derry embodied everything that nursing is and hopefully
ever will be. She was an intelligent, skilled practitioner who cared deeply
about her patients and her community and never stepped back from a challenge.
She did not ask for praise or recognition - she just did what good nurses
do every day. This story is a tribute to her so that nurses can know they
come from a very powerful and important tradition and to be a NURSE is no
small thing.
Footnote: When I called one of Gwen's sons to get as many facts as I could for
this story, he told me she had never spoken of all the nursing care she gave
and never knew why my Dad bought his Mom roses every year for Christmas.
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